When you make a mistake you have options; do you ignore the consequences and ensure a repeat of the mistake will happen again? Or do you learn from it so it will never reoccur?

There are many shades of grey between those points but do you understand what I mean when I say your reactions are important? The mistake is the spark, the push to make you decide what kind of person you want to be.

[Helios, you really need to have a good meal and a good nights sleep.]

It may be a part of you but it isn't you. You have to accept that it happened and move on.