"Well, like I said--just make sure you find time to spend together." Because going on dates with the same person over a long period is pretty different than an equal number of first or second dates. "And talk to each other. It's pretty easy to feel the pressure of what you should be doing. But there's no timeline or set schedule of how things should go. You have to do what's right for you--which sounds pretty vague, but it's really the best advice I've got. Other than enjoy it, anyway."

Being happy with each other is what matters most. Otherwise, what's the point?